Week 11: Measuring the Cost
I've enjoyed this week's study material, especially the articles and videos on money, and its proper place in our lives. I started out with a really avoidant type relationship with money. I just wanted it to be there, but didn't want to spend any effort to understand, save, work on it, or pay attention to it at all. As you can imagine, this led to all kinds of difficulties. I learned this type of money profile mainly from my dad, who was pretty irresponsible impulsive with money. As time passed and I got married, I realized that I married a man who was 180 degrees opposite of that attitude with money. James is a very careful saver, doesn't make large purchases without weighing carefully the pros and cons, and is pretty much "allergic to spending money." We had some memorable evenings in the beginning as our two money styles collided. Over the years, and lots of work on budgeting, and realigning my values on my part, and lots of work ...